One of My Biggest Learnings of 2021 — Applied Depth Practitioner Institute
Well, 2021 is almost over, and this year has been…full.
I’ve had my fair share of celebratory cries and peak moments as well as my fair share of “this-is-so-painful-when-will-this-be-over” moments.
In other words — this year has been chock full of learning.
When I reflect back on what my personal “curriculum of 2021” has been, it amazes me to no end.
I wanted to share one of my biggest learnings here with you; it’s a little bit of an obvious one, but sometimes the obvious learnings, when taken in deeply, are the most powerful. This learning (it’s actually a constellation of learnings around the same topic) has been an important one for me as a human, as a parent, as a friend, and as a practitioner:
(See practitioner points further below)
First, have even more compassion for all you’re going through.
As a people, we are still going through so much. We’ve all been holding a lot for almost two years now, and there is a collective trauma that is VERY real.
There is NOTHING AT ALL wrong with you if you are feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, stressed, triggered, dysregulated, frustrated, and beyond.
It is not out of the ordinary right now.
You are still whole and complete exactly as you are.
Even if you haven’t been touched directly by the events of the last two years…you’ve very very likely been impacted.
We all have been, in one way or another.
The first year, it was easier to spot and easier to “accept” the impact in some ways — there was conspicuous shock, fear, grief, and emergency response.
For many people, though, year two has been a more quiet, yet in some ways, a tougher impact.
The impact of ongoing stress is showing its face.
Again, I know this is obvious in many ways. But I share it so you:
*Do not underestimate this one; it’s HUGE. This has been a big, big learning for me this last year. Even though I’ve *known* for years the importance of tending to my nervous system, the lesson has been integrated so much more deeply, and I am so grateful for it.
I also share it for those who are practitioners and working with clients (& really any all humans interacting with others) so you can:
Your good work is more important than ever. Your solid presence and your impeccable skills are needed now more than ever. Your ability to hold transformational space with mastery is needed now more than ever. As we move into the new year, my wish for you, dear one, is that you learn even deeper compassion for yourself, that you find even deeper respect for taking care of your nervous system, and that you feel confident as you lead your clients and your groups through these times and towards their goals.
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Originally published at https://applieddepthinstitute.com on December 24, 2021.